Single Mom Dating Tips
March 14, 2007
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It’s hard to get into the swing of dating when you are single or divorced with no children, let alone when you have little tykes to think about. We are meant to raise our kids, not live life through them. Single moms are still entitled to a life of their own and that includes love. To give single moms a fair start, here are a few dating tips.
1. Be upfront with your kids when you begin dating. Preparing them for your return to dating will make the process easier on both of you. If you are a divorcee, let the kids know that you will not be getting back with their father again. The biggest hope that children of divorce have is that their parents will magically fall in love again. This will head off some of the resentment your kids may have when you start dating.
2. Be upfront with your dates. Just like you need to talk with your kids, let your dates know that you have children. Nothing can be gained from hiding this fact. It doesn’t have to be blurted out as soon as he picks you up, but during the course of the conversation, it should come up. If he isn’t into kids, learn about it on the first date before your feelings get hurt.
3. What do I wear? You may not be used to spending money on new clothes for yourself, but you should get a new outfit for a first date. If he’s taking you to dinner and a movie, dress casual. Black slacks and a colorful blouse are appropriate. The outfit should fit the date destination. Besides, new clothes make anyone feel beautiful and confident.
4. Get your hair done. Don’t look like you’ve been through the ringer even if you have. Put your best foot forward on this one. Good grooming is a plus for both parties. Let him see you at your best.
5. Mind your thoughts. Don’t doom the date by thinking about it too much. Keep your mental attitude in check. Your first goal should be to enjoy yourself. If the first four guys weren’t right for you, there are plenty more out there. Don’t overwhelm yourself with expectations that can’t be met. The first date is meant to get acquainted and see if there’s something there. Let the conversation start naturally. If there is something you really want to know, don’t be afraid to ask.
Dating is scary for everyone, but don’t sweat it. The best way to relax is to take the pressure off. You are a mom, but you are still a beautiful woman and deserve to have someone treat you like one.
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