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This article was written by Guest Blogger Alice Seba of Schmoozins.

Many moms find themselves faced with a situation at some point or another regarding her children where she and Dad just don’t agree on some issue of parenting. Whether it’s how to discipline the children, where they will receive their schooling, or if it really will kill you to eat cookies for breakfast every now and again, it’s not uncommon to disagree with your husband when it comes to the kiddos.

If you find yourself in this predicament more often than not, it’s time to do something about it before it
begins to cause heartache for the entire family. If you’re a mom who doesn’t agree with Dad on parenting topics, here are 3 quick tips to get you both on the same page, or at least closer to being there before it’s too late.

Have a Clear Plan Beforehand.

Although most of you reading probably already have kids, if you don’t or if you plan to add more this one’s for you. Discuss possible issues where you and your husband may disagree before the baby comes. Create a plan and come to an agreement on how you will handle these situations.

Cut Him Some Slack.

If Dad thinks cookies for breakfast is ok every once in awhile is it really the end of the world? Nah! Give him some leeway to be the “fun” Dad every now and again. Heck, have some fun yourself every now and again. Surprise Dad and the kids and serve something sweet for breakfast or dinner once. See how much fun you have!

Talk, Talk, Talk!

Marriage and raising a family can’t be done by reading minds or expecting the other to read yours. When an issue arises that you aren’t necessarily in agreement with, make it a point to talk about it. Don’t just let it go and hope someday he understands. Just be sure to talk about it without the kids present. If they see parents disagreeing on something, the chances of them pushing buttons and seeing how far they can go on that issue are higher.

Parenting was meant to be a joint effort, not Mom telling the kids one thing and Dad going to the complete opposite end of the field. There is a reason children have Moms AND Dads and it’s so that the two can work together to give their children the best.

About the Author: Alice Seba is the Schmoozer in Chief at Schmoozins, the online magazine that gives all women a voice. Visit us for more family and parenting tips.

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