Maybe you have been married a long time. Maybe the pitter-patter of tiny feet has occupied your time. Whatever the reason, you and your husband have grown a little stagnant in the romance department. Put the spark back in your love life and learn how to keep your husband happy.
An eager wife needs to forget everything she’s been taught about how to get her husband’s attention. We’ve all heard that “men are from Mars and women are from Venus”, but you need to get his attention back here on Earth. Talk to your husband. We often forget that human beings are not mind readers.
No matter what your husband says listen attentively. He might say that when you wash the dishes it makes him happy. We all hope that’s not true, but the point is this: if you give him what will make him happy, he will reciprocate in kind. If you are happy with him, won’t you feel more amorous in the bedroom? He will be more eager to meet your needs if his are being met.
Men are sexual beings. They express their love in that way ninety percent of the time. Why not make the experience as mind-blowing as possible? Give your intimate moments a special touch that only you can provide. Make up your mind right now that you will do what you can to show your love for him in a way that will make him satisfied.
The focus is your husband, but you should enjoy the experience as well. Start with a bubble bath. Wash his body from head to toe paying special attention to his favorite “spots”. While he is drying off, prepare your bed for a relaxing massage. Tell him that you understand how hard he’s worked and you want to help him to relax. K-Y makes massage oil that heats up on contact. Start at the top and work your way down. I think you are catching on now.
You want to act as you normally do, but add a little extra each time you set aside intimate time together. The more you initiate intimacy and focus on him, the more he will search for ways to meet your needs in and out of the bedroom. And, for women, a man who meets our emotional needs will garner our everlasting gratitude in the bedroom. One hand washes the other, in a manner of speaking.
People used to say that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. I say that the way to a healthy marriage is through both hearts. If the man is happy in the bedroom, his wife will be happier all around.
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