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12 Days of Christmas Family Giving: Help a Family YOU Know

This continues our series about awesome charities that serve families – especially children – during the holiday season.  This is the fourth post.

This post isn’t about a ‘charity’, but more about how we as individuals can practice charity.

I remember in high school, there was a family next door to us that was going through a really rough patch.  It was summer and their dad just lost his job and the mom was a stay at home mom and they were afraid they were going to lose their house.  I couldn’t imagine being in that situation then, but fast forward to now, that is reality for a lot of people at this time.  So many families don’t have food on their table or presents under their Christmas tree.  How disheartening!

This is a call to action on what people like us who have an extra $5 or $10 to go out and buy a present for little Suzie next door.  Wouldn’t that light up her face to know that she has a few presents under the tree to open come Christmas day?

All it takes is one person to start the pay it forward act and it will be a domino effect to showing kids what Christmas and love is all about. Even if it is something small or even something that your kids aren’t playing with anymore, I’m sure the family who doesn’t have a lot will appreciate what you give to them. Also, toys that you aren’t using can be donated too.

I love having my 2 year old pick out a toy he doesn’t want anymore and dropping it in the Salvation Army box.  It’s moments like that, that remind me of what is truly important  - the children.

Family Friendly Activities for the Winter Season

Brrr! Winter is approaching quickly, at least where I live. Although we had a pile of snow earlier this month, and are not very eager for more, we know it will soon arrive. When it does, it’ll force most
people inside and probably under the cover of blankets.

Yet there is plenty to do during the wintertime and a lot of options for family-friendly activities. Here are just a few ideas.

Sing Carols

‘Tis the season for this type of thing, after all. You can find a group that goes around caroling, or just get your family together by itself, and go at it! Have stage fright? Then just keep it inside; there doesn’t have to be a big audience in order to sing. There are plenty of winter and holiday-themed songs to choose from, of course, but why limit the options to that? Find some other
kind of music that your family likes and mix it in. That should help keep things interesting.

Exercise

Whenever winter comes, it always seems like people shut out activities like exercise, especially if they live in a region where it gets really cold. It’s understandable. I myself find it difficult to stay out in really cold temperatures for more than ten minutes at a time. After all, who wants to make their face freeze? I sure don’t.

However, there is plenty you and the family can do to stay healthy, and they don’t have to be the usual suspects. You can still bundle up and take a walk around the block together. If you and the family are feeling a little braver, and there is no ice, you can run instead. Then, after you go back in, dance! That’s right, dance. Not only will it warm everybody up after that walk, it’s great for exercising the legs, the arms, and even the hands. Find or borrow some fun music CDs and get going!

Cook

The holidays are, of course, a great time to cook, but you can certainly do so during the rest of the winter as well. You can get the whole family involved – just make them each responsible for a step in the process.

The raw materials to create a platter of cookies do not cost much, and especially during the holidays, making cookies and other sweets can be a fun thing to do. Don’t limit yourselves to sweets, though. You can use the time stuck inside to involve everybody in cooking a healthy dish that’s traditional to your family.

If the kids are younger, they can assume a smaller role, like mixing something or gathering ingredients before the cooking begins. If they’re older they can be taught to fully prepare a meal.

Volunteer Your Time and/or Donate Food

Winter, especially when it’s cold, is a very harsh time, but even more so for the homeless. People readily line up to volunteer and donate their time for the holidays, but the needy don’t stop being needy, and pantries don’t stop needing food, after the holidays are over. On the contrary, this often ends up being the time pantries and shelters need help and donations the most because many of the food drives stop and donations dry up.

So contact your local shelter or volunteer organization and find out what they need. Then get the entire family involved to gather up food to donate, or to head down to a shelter and volunteer. The  shelters and pantries will appreciate the help and donations, the homeless will be able to find a warm place to eat during the hardest months of the year, and you and your family will be able to make a contribution together.

Find a Show

Between singing, running, cooking, and volunteering, your batteries will eventually run down, so you need to recharge. Instead of slouching in front of the TV, why not patronize your local arts scene? Where you live depends on what options are near you, but most towns have some kind of community theater organization or performances at a local school. If you live in or near a major city you might be able to find a symphony orchestra or band. Take the whole family and see a good play or musical, or listen to some classical music.

Museums are another option for shows, as they often have some kind of theater inside them. It is a video-based activity, but one in which you and your family are much more likely to learn something than on most TV shows. Then once you’re done you can still get some exercise and see the other exhibits. What more is there to ask for?

Michael is the concert specialist for TicketNetwork, an online exchange listing event tickets. Check out their blog for articles about live events and pop culture.

12 Days of Christmas Family Giving We Admire: Operation Christmas Child

This continues our series about awesome charities that serve families – especially children – during the holiday season.  This is the third post.

Who knew that receiving something as small as a pencil could bring such a big smile to a child’s face. I am reminded of how much we really take for granted at this time of year. Kids make their Christmas lists to include things like Xbox 360 Kinect and Apple Ipod Touch, when there are some kids who would be happy with a new toothbrush.

We need a new perspective!

I absolutely adore the mission of Operation Christmas Child. Their mission to collect shoe boxes filled with a variety of items like, a matchbox car, a bar of soap, a lollipop, pencils and other school supplies. These items are packed up in a shoe box and wrapped with holiday paper. They are sent to kids in need all over the world.

I would love to see that warehouse filled up to the ceiling with boxes.

I remember how much fun I had with my then 5 year old son packing up a box for Operation Christmas Child. I remember explaining to him why I included some toothpaste a long with the small toys he had chosen to put in the box. He was amazed that someone on the other side of the world would be in need of something so ordinary. I really think it impacted him. He had something to connect to when he heard about sending things to Haiti or Japan. He enjoyed how after we put the items in the box, we wrapped the box with wrapping paper. I think he was able to imagine some child, some where opening up the box!

The Operation Christmas Child headquarters are located in Boone, North Carolina and are affiliated with the non profit group, Samaritan’s Purse. They accept donations all year round, and you always have the option of making a monetary donation online.

Make it a point of packing a shoe box with your child today.

Trust me, it will make a big impact not only for some child in need, but for your child as well.

12 Days of Christmas Family Giving We Admire: Kids Matter, Inc.

This continues our series about awesome charities that serve families – especially children – during the holiday season.  This is the second post.

How amazing is it that there are still places out there like Toys for Tots and Kids Matter that really help children, not just around this time of year but year round.

I remember, just like it was yesterday, when I was 8 years old and I had this friend who came to school in the same outfit 3 days in a row.  As an 8 year old I didn’t have a filter so I asked her why she was wearing the same clothes and she told me because her mom and dad weren’t together anymore because her dad was hurting her and her mom couldn’t afford anything new for her to wear.  Thinking about that still brings tears to my eyes.  Talk about tugging at your heart strings.

Kids Matter is just about that, making sure kids have toys and toiletries so they know that they are cared for and loved.  If you go to their website: Kids Matter – Fostering Hope you will see stories about them helping children through their tough times. Kids Matter was founded in 2000 in Milwaukee, WI to help children who are abused or neglected or in the child welfare system.

What I love about this charity:

There are a few different divisions and they focus on the children and what is important to the child. They really focus on helping the children in foster care and who are homeless.

Not only do they give toys for birthdays and holidays, but they also bring the necessities likes clothes and toiletries that kids need in their day to day lives that can’t always be afforded by parents or foster parents.  What is even more amazing is that people have come together from all walks of life to give back.  A hospital donated diapers, a 2 year old and his family donated toys on their birthday, a school donated toys and there are many more amazing stories like that.

Although it is Christmas time and the season to remember why it is important, giving is all year and Kids Matter remembers that.  I am thankful that they are teaching children that and it is something we should all remember too.

Avoid the Post-Holiday Blues with Stylish Winter Decor

Getting through the winter months can be a trial for many mothers; the weather is cold, the sky is gray, and sometimes the blues take hold of us and won’t let go. To beat this down-in-the-dumps condition, consider redecorating your home to imbue your daily life with a fun, festive atmosphere. Giving the house a sprucing up for winter will keep you feeling cheery and bright, no matter what Jack Frost has to say about it. With a bit of ingenuity, your home will feel warm and inviting all winter long!

Decorations

What are the winter holidays without decorations? Even if your spirits are down, a lively decoration piece or two can bring a smile to anyone’s face. Use decorations that you love, such as holiday pieces you’ve shared with your family over the years. This could mean, for example, a set of beloved Christmas tree ornaments or a Nativity scene your grandmother made for you when you were little. Seeing these items can boost our spirits by helping us remember times with our loved ones.

Use twinkle lights when spreading out your winter decorations. These lights aren’t just for the Christmas tree or to hang from the roof; they can be incorporated indoors, as well! A string of lights twisted around a stairway banister, or spread over a mantle, adds instant brightness to an area. This has the literal effect of “lighting” up our interior spaces as well as our moods! This can be particularly charming in a young child’s bedroom, to add whimsy and act as a nightlight in the evening.

Also make sure to add decorations in places where you might not usually think to use them; a small basket of ornaments on the counter in the bathroom keeps the spirit up during a relaxing bath, while livening up floor lamps with seasonal red and green light bulbs keeps things festive. Or, hang glittering snowflakes from a curtain rod on the window in your kitchen, which will keep you smiling even when washing those pesky dishes.

Accessories

If you want to make a big decorating impact without too much cost or effort, consider using accessories. Home accessories create punch with minimal time and are ideal during the winter months, when a lack of accessories can mean the difference between a stark house and a cozy home. In the living room, layer accessories with a textile element to create a soft feeling. Cushions and pillows on the sofa, a new sheepskin rug and pretty draperies all add an immediate lushness to a space.

Choose fabrics that make you smile and feel warm inside, like real or faux velvet, suede, or cottons in warm colors. Include natural elements like wooden bowls or trays made from cork. A twine basket of pine cones brings the outdoors inside without dropping the temperature inside your home.

And don’t forget plenty of candles spread around, which create a warm glow your family is sure to appreciate. As a final accessory touch for your home, gather as many family photos as you can find. Spread framed pictures of your loved ones all around you, on end tables and consoles. Surrounding yourself with the faces of the people you love is one design tip that will definitely help chase away the winter blues.

Colors

Use positive colors and tones during the winter season to add charm and a bit of cheer to your daily duties. There are a number of color schemes you can choose from, but pay particular attention to shades that instantly make you smile. A warm palette refers to colors on the “warm” side of the color wheel. These are hues like rusty red, brown, sage green and vibrant orange. Use these colors when choosing your accents to add instant coziness. Don’t forget bright yellow, the color of the sun, to add some thematic warmth. This can be added with a sunny yellow pot or a bright, punchy ceramic vase. If you prefer to embrace the cool winter weather, utilize the colors of the season: icy blues, winter whites and silver can all create the sleek look of a modern winter loft in an instant.

Consider these colors when choosing non-obvious elements of your home, like flowers and produce. A silver vase filled with white flowers is an ideal way to bring living elements into your home while still using the winter colors. An overflowing bowl of ripe blueberries blends in beautifully with a kitchen filled with white tiles and stainless steel appliances. These touches welcome guests and family in, helping the home to feel warm even when using the cooler colors.

Entertaining Little Ones

One of the most frustrating parts of being cooped inside during the winter months is entertaining the kids, who can become antsy and bored during the long holiday break. The days leading up to Christmas or the holidays offer plenty of fun, but once the big day passes the hours can feel particularly long for the little ones. Counteract this problem by having plenty on hand to keep the kids entertained and happy, which in turn will provide you with plenty of peace.

An activity basket in the living room is an ideal place to start; fill the basket with jigsaw puzzles, craft supplies and board games. These can keeps kids occupied and entertained for hours at a time. Also have a few movies on hand that you know your kids love to watch, and let them build a fort in front of the television to have their own movie night.

While you’re at it, come up with some household activities that kids can help out with. Little ones love giving mom a hand by folding towels, a very mature and grown up task that even small hands can complete. Or, think of simple recipes for dinner that you can get the kids involved in helping to make. A basic noodle dish or sandwiches and salads can easily benefit from young helpers. Kids get the feeling of knowing they’ve contributed something, and you get a bit of help with all the hard work you do for your family.

Keeping your spirits up in the cold season can be as simple as a change of scenery; a few basic interior design touches will add warmth and coziness to your home, and keep you and your family feeling snug and close all through the winter.

Happy decorating!

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