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Momma Said Blog Tour: Jen Singer’s New Book

Product DetailsFor all the moms of infants and toddlers, you’ll want to tune in to Jen Singer and her new book, “Stop Second Guessing Yourself — The Toddler Years.” For her stop on the MTN blog, I asked her questions about parenting toddlers and tweens.

Tell us about your new book and why you wrote it.

Jen: It’s mom tested advice and validation.  I wanted to write the antithesis to the What to Expect books–something relatable and funny.

It seems like there is so much pressure on mothers to raise the best, most creative kids ever.  For example, I read that the reason why Asian cultures produce more prodigies is the value theses cultures place on nurturing talent in children at a very early age.  A toddler banging on a piano will be put into early piano lessons or steered towards the violin.  What’s your reaction?

Jen:  The bar for parenting has been raised so impossibly high that we’re all burning out trying to reach it.  We need to get back to basics and let our kids entertain themselves and be creative before we burn them out too. [Read more...]

Love Links to the Green Mom Blogs

After watching Oprah’s Earth Day show, it hit me that I can do more to stop the tidal wave of garbage floating in our oceans and piling up in landfills.  So, my big shift was to stop using plastic or paper at the grocery store.  Instead, I’ve stocked up on canvas totes and bring them with me.  It is far easier carrying five totes into the house, rather than dozens of plastic grocery bags, cutting into fingers, loaded with just a few items each.  I picked the blogs because they have easy, do-able, and realistic ways to go green.

Naturemom shops at thrift stores, has a productive garden going, and posts easy to do green tips.  She also reviews parenting books.  I particularly liked her review on attachment parenting–a kinder, nurturing way to be a mom.

Greatgreengoods shows pictures of beautiful earrings and necklaces created by a woman who cleans foreclosed homes during the day and turns the salvaged goods into beautiful jewelry at night.   This may be a new business trend for moms–launching businesses to clean up foreclosed homes and yards and then recycling or reselling the goods. 

I love anything that has to do with donating pennies!  Greenmomreview explains one way to get your kids involved in conservation activities through a program established by the National Audubon Society.  And it costs. . .just pennies. . . to make a difference.

Simplemom has done a stellar job at putting together 40 easy ways to go green.  Check the list!  I’m sure many of us already do some of the things on the list, but others may be easier than you think.  

Mama Goes Green has the cutest portable bags I’ve ever seen.  These are so much more attractive than the totes I use.  Her giveaway is over, but if you think using your own tote has to be ugly, look at these.  You will be stylin’ at the store whenever you use these.

This is my new favorite green website.  Thea merged with another green website and the result is a gorgeous, friendly, usable site.  Want to know how to make your own kid-friendly, economical and safe insect repellent?  Or find resources to buy disposable forks and plates that totally decompose in 60 days? 

Here is an easy, cost effective and natural way to clean your bathroom. Time to get an empty spray bottle and mix together your own friendly cleaning products.

My Best Family Vacation Spot – Washington, DC

The Lincoln Memorial

For vacations and getaways, we’ve taken the kids to the beach, camping, San Diego, Disneyland, Sedona, Yellowstone,  Zion National Park, Santa Fe, and other beautiful places.   But our family favorite spot is . . . Washington, DC.  For an in depth look at history, war memorials, protesters, science, art, and as many free museums as you can cram in during a vacation, Washington, DC is a cultural mecca for the entire family.

For several extremely humid summer days, my kids and I strolled past the White House, then ambled over to the National Mall.  And stopped at every water kiosk we could find.  The mall is a long rectangle which is anchored by the U.S. Capitol on the East and the brooding and majestic Lincoln Memorial to the West.  On the North and South sides of the mall are the many of the Smithsonian’s acclaimed, free museums.  According to the Smithsonian website, the Smithsonian Institution oversees 19 museums, 9 research centers, and the National Zoo.  It has the world’s most expansive collection of museums and offers an indescribable array of treasures.See full size image

For a first-hand look at priceless jewelry, including the so-called cursed Hope Diamond, start at the Museum of Natural History.  Find out how the world’s largest blue diamond was mined in India, made it through the French Revolution, and ended up in the hands of famous jewelers Harry Winston and Pierre Cartier.  The last  private owner of the Hope Diamond was Evalyn Walsh Mclean.  Click on the link to see how bedazzling she looks wearing  her spectacular, showy necklace.  Mrs. McLean also owned the rare Star of the East Diamond and several other knockout pieces as well.  Other gems on display include a 23.1 carat Burmese ruby–the Carmen Lucia Ruby–one of the most breathtaking rubies in the world.  Other, collections in the Natural History Museum include fierce dinosaurs,  meteorites, butterflies, evolution, bones, biology and a vast amount of stuff.

At the American History Museum, history comes to life when you see the actual tophat worn by President Lincoln at the Ford Theatre on the night he was assassinated.   This year, the Smithsonian commemorates the 200 years since Lincoln’s birth with an in depth look at his life, impact and why we still talk about him.  The American History Museum houses 3 million artifacts on topics ranging from American Jazz to dollhouses, electrical lighting to outfits of the First Ladies.  As you study old period clothing, you will note that people were smaller, thinner and had very narrow shoulders in years past.

The most crowded and popular museum is the National Air and Space Museum.

Mercury Spacecraft Friendship 7 It is packed to the rafters with planes and space history.  As you look at the Apollo 11 command module–Columbia–it is hard to believe that men flew in space capsules so compact.  From the Wright Brothers early 1903 Flyer to Buzz Aldrin and Neil Armstrong’s spacesuits worn on the moon, this museum is a kid’s noisy paradise.  Satellite photos of our beautiful Earth show the impact and changes that humans have added to the planet.

hieroglyphics

Hieroglyphics at the new Museum of African Art.  When you actually see real Egyptian hieroglyphics, not a replica, it expands your mind somehow.   It’s one thing to look at symbols and images in a book, but quite another to see the language and culture up close.  Why and  how did language change over time?  Ancient Egyptians used symbols and drawings and we have evolved, somehow, to use letters and words.   Loved this new, not so crowded museum full of African artwork,  masks, sculptures and history.

Panda eating bamboo at the National Zoo.  A wonderful, sprawling zoo.  Although easy to access using the Metro subway, the Zoo is large and requires hours of walking.  We lucked out as they were just feeding the pandas and both animals were alert and playful.

snacktime

To see the U.S. Constitution, the Declaration of Independence and the Bill of Rights, go to the National Archives. We waited a long time to see the founding documents of our nation, but once inside the various rooms, voices drop as the lighting dims and you see, firsthand, the documents, the words, and the signatures.

See real currency being printed at the Bureau of Engraving and Printing.  It’s eye opening to see a freshly printed sheet of $20 dollar bills being added to a six-foot stack of bills.   Printing the money is cheap, but it’s the value we give that money that makes it expensive.  Of course, security is tight at the building.  You can, however, buy souvenirs of shredded money in small gift bags in the gift shop at the end of the tour.

For your last stop, go to the International Spy Museum. In a city full of spies, or so claims this private museum, this is a intriuging look at national and international espionage and spying.  CIA.  KGB.  The Cold War.  Domestic terrorists.  Who makes a good spy?  A great liar.  Someone who can convincingly change his or her appearance,  adapt a new way of acting and behaving, and stay in character at all times. And is ruthless too.  As technology advances, the tools of the trade get smaller: pens that are deadly weapons, eyeglasses that can record and magnify, and now micro-sized listening devices and cameras that can be placed nearly invisibly almost anywhere.  After you leave this museum, expect to walk around paranoid for at least several hours.  Somehow you feel that everyone walking on the streets is now a spy and that your hotel room is bugged too.

From my family’s point of view, Washington DC is a national treasure.  In the evenings when we joined my husband, we again strolled along the Mall.  Best night time activity?  Trying to catch fire flies, which my kids had never seen before.  And looking at the somber memorials of the wars.  And the pensive face of Lincoln.

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More Great Tips from The Household Helper

Life's More Fun When You're Organized
When I started the blog internship, I was still unpacking boxes in our new house.  I reached a point where I didn’t know what to do with all the stuff we had accumulated, so I asked The Household Helper for help.  Here are more guidelines on how to sort through clutter after a move.  Her six month rule is awesome–if you don’t know what to do with something after six months, get rid of it.

I have items  from the move that I’m just not sure what to do with.  Do I store these things or make a decision to get rid of them?  I would call these the “gray” areas of clutter — I can see the usefulness of hanging onto items, but don’t necessarily love them or feel anything other than they may be useful  ”someday.”

Moving into a new space is always a challenge. Lots of times you find that things you had in your former home don’t work in the new home. I do have a couple of ideas for what to do with the items you are not sure what to do with.

Your decor may be the biggest challenge.  Sometimes items that you loved in your new home don’t quite work.  Before throwing your hands up in frustration, take some time to try your items in different rooms and areas.  You can use T-pins (found in the quilting section of craft stores) to temporarily hang items.  You can hang items with these pins without putting big holes in your walls.

Once you have the basics unpacked and settled, let your items float from area to area for about a week. If after that time you haven’t made a commitment, it’s time to either toss it or store it.

What if you have something, such as cool curtain clips you purchased from a trendy store, that you won’t use right now but may someday down the road?  What about art and decorations that don’t look quite right in your new space?
This is an easy problem. Create a box to keep in your storage space labeled decor. Place items in the box that you’re not sure what to do with. Items that you may use “some day”.   Now to make sure these items don’t get out of hand you need to:
  • limit the items you can hang onto for “some day” to only things that will fit in that box. If the box is full, and there is something you want to add to it, you need to purge the box and make room for it.
  • set yourself a date to re-visit the box in say 6 months.  If by then you haven’t found a home for those items, then it’s time to let them go.
  • Another really fun and practical idea is to host a swap.  I did this a couple years ago. I invited my friends and family over for cake and coffee and told them to bring any unused decor with them: artwork, shelves, accessories.  While socializing and snacking, we all got to go “shopping” for new decor.   We had the opportunity to help each other out with our decor dilemmas and bounce ideas off each other.

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Cross Blog Conversation with the Dinker and Giggles Mom

For my Cross Blog Conversation,  I was lucky to catch Alaina Frederick,  busy wife, mom of 3, and a blogger who shared how her blog and website have evolved over time.   This is helpful info, as many of us new mom bloggers think we have to come up with a perfect focus before we even begin.

E: Alaina, you’ve been involved in blogging and online work for quite some time.  How has your blog evolved and changed?

A: Erin, that is really an interesting question!  I first started my blog as a way to let my customers know of specials for my then online boutique. It was first just something I update when I had something going on.   Over time I ended up realizing that storing products, packing them up, dealing with returns, exchanges, and just all of those goodies was not for me.  So I took a break and that is when I started journaling on a “mommy blog”.  To me it was just a way for me to share funny moments and pictures with our family.   I loved it–it was such a great release.
Quickly my drive for my online boutique came back, but I wanted more to have just an outlet to share  the great natural products I came across. So Dinker & Giggles was back–but this time just as a blog.  Over the past year my site has slowly grown with my children. At first I was writing a lot about cloth diapers, breastfeeding, and babywearing.  It’s where I was in my life.   Now that my youngest is over a year many of those things I’m just not excited about.  Almost as if I’ve “been there, done that”.  So today the site has grown with me.
My main focus right now in my personal life is being transparent- admitting that I have a problem with food and finding fun ways to solve it.  So I started a Lifetime Challenge for myself. 100 lbs in 365 days – and to continue the healthy outlook for life!
Now, I’m not all about weight loss– that would just be boring to me!  I’m still writing about natural parenting and home life but it’s with a giggle I call it.  Taking things that we are struggling with in our own home and with our parenting techniques and finding fun ways to fix them.
To finish our conversation, go look at Alaina’s blog right now.

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